My wife won't tell me if her ex had a bigger penis than I do
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M obsessed with the thought that my wife’s teenage lover had a bigger manhood than me.
I’m 50, she’s 49. We met when she was 16, and she lost her virginity to me.
We split up and she went out with another guy for a few months before we got back together. She said nothing sexual happened.
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We have now been married for 30 years, have a son, and a happy life together.
But I’ve always been very suspicious about her ex and have kept asking about him.
Last month, she confessed they did have sex. She says it meant nothing.
My world fell apart. I asked her for details and whether he was larger than me, but she won’t discuss it.
The thought of her having sex with someone else is driving me nuts. Why did she lie?
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DEIDRE SAYS: She probably lied to protect you, because she loves you and knew you’d react like this.
Your jealousy about the past is damaging your happy relationship.
Think of the big picture – she has chosen you.
It sounds like you’re insecure about your penis size, but your wife has been happy for years.
Try to focus on the positive.
I’m sending you my support pack Raising Self-esteem which will help.
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